Are you Rhea? Ruth Malich asked as she greeted me at the entryway of her new home.
Her hair had Laura Ingalls-style braids that were pinned around the top of her head. She held a small bag with green yarn peeking out the top.
Yes, I replied. Are you Ruth?
She was, and after she gave me a quick tour of Georgetown Place Retirement Communitys first floor, we headed to her apartment to talk about her life as a crafter.
A woman who has done some form of crafting most of her life, Ruth, 87, is a reservoir of experience. Her crafting repertoire includes sewing, knitting, crocheting, quilting and tatting.
Tatting is an old art form that uses a shuttle and thread to create lacy designs.
Really, its fancy work, Malich said. Now theyre doing it with needles. Its beautiful work. I really havent gotten into the needles.
Though Malich enjoys tatting embellishments for cards, she spends most of her time knitting for charities and teaching others how to knit through the Retired Senior Volunteer Program.
I just enjoy teaching the people – anybody, I mean whether theyre children or whether theyre adults – the art of crochet and knitting, because I think it relaxes you and it helps your brain, she said. Theyre finding out more and more now that the knitting really helps you – like the music helps your brain.
Malichs granddaughter, a high school music teacher, taught Malich something shed never realized: Knittings rhythms parallel musical rhythms.
I said, Well, you know, Ill teach you how to knit. I said, Ill teach you the European way and Ill teach you the English way, and so she said, OK, and then she says, Well, Grandma, I dont want to hurt your feelings, she says, but I would rather do it the American way, and I said, OK, because she says, it goes 1-2-3, 1-2-3 when youre knitting, and with the German way, its just 1-2, 1-2. You dont have that extra movement. And I said, I never gave that a thought.
So now when I teach people, I say, Are you musically inclined? And they look at me and say, What? And I said, Well, if youre musically inclined, then you want to do it one way, because youve got that rhythm.
Malich understands rhythm as it relates to life as well as to knitting. Shes still an early riser, starting her day at 6 a.m.
Im a crafter, and we crafters have to get up early to do our crafts, she cheerily said over the phone one recent morning. Shes heard that its not good for retirees to alter their sleeping and eating routines, because the body doesnt know what to expect.
But Malich is not against change. In fact, after learning that knitting icon Elizabeth Zimmerman suggested people learn something new every year, Malich did just that. She has received certification through the Knitting Guild Associations Master Knitter program – a feat she wanted to complete before turning 80 and did. Shes taken harmonica classes. Shes tried the Internet, which she could care less about.
This year, shes counting her move to Georgetown as her new thing, and she might try Wii. But shes not likely to play it too long. I could be knitting, she said. Besides, she gets exercise walking in Georgetown.
One thing Malich has learned through her years of knitting is that everybodys got a story.
Learning those stories can be insightful: Once, a woman whod been unsuccessful in learning to knit attended one of Malichs classes. She asked how to hold her needle and was told to do it any way that allows her to get the knit stitch and the purl stitch. The woman put a needle under her arm and began to knit.
There is no right or wrong way to knit, Malich told the woman. If a teacher tells you you have to do it a certain way, get a different teacher, because there are no set ways. You can do it any way you want to; you can do it standing on your head, I said, if you can handle that needle and that yarn.
