Once upon a time, when men went out for a night of pole dancing, it was their eyes that got a workout. But in the past few years for some, its been their entire bodies. Like women, guys are discovering that pole dancing can be an athletic and artistic pursuit that feels more Cirque du Soleil than strip club.
Meet Tavon Hargett. The 28-year-old Washingtonian has developed a following on YouTube with his homemade pole dancing videos under the name Jungle Cat.
Somebody said I looked like a cat jumping up on the pole, so thats my alter ego, he says after demonstrating some of his acrobatic spins, holds and inversions.
His hip-hop wardrobe – think high-tops instead of high heels – and preference for a gospel soundtrack are fairly unusual among pole dancers, but its Hargetts gender that makes his skills so remarkable. He first experimented with a pole he ordered online. I got into the athleticism and strength behind it, he says. When he looked for formal instruction, however, he was stuck. Most pole dance studios are for women only.
But then he met Jessalynn Medairy. Last fall, the 24-year-old launched her studio Pole Pressure inside Balance Gym. The Washington, D.C., health club wanted unusual group fitness formats to lure in members, so Medairy was soon teaching Pole Level 1, 2 and 3 right next to cycling classes.
It was the ideal spot for Medairy, whose mission is to challenge peoples perceptions of pole dancing. At the first U.S. Pole Dance Championships, held recently in New York, the opera lover placed fourth with her artistic routine choreographed to All I Ask of You from Phantom of the Opera. I made it look like the pole was my dance partner, she says.
Eager to spread her love of twirling and climbing, Medairy decided not to reserve all of her classes for women. Instead, the Pole Pressure schedule is dotted with mixers, co-ed sessions that focus less on sexy dance moves and more on tricks, making for a rigorous upper-body workout. She wears me out, says Hargett, whos been training with Medairy to develop increasingly difficult moves and fluid connections.
Hes her star male student, but others have taken the poles for a spin. Women often bring in boyfriends and husbands to prove that what theyre doing is really exercise. Its not what they think, Medairy says.
Testosterone is also welcome at Jordins Paradise, a fitness studio with an array of classes – including ballet fusion, laughing yoga and cardio kickboxing – that just opened in D.C. Pole dance aerobics and pole cardio sessions are co-ed, just like everything else on the schedule.
I never intended it to be only for women. You dont just spin and grind, owner Rania Jaziri says.
One favorite exercise: Hold the pole with one hand and a dumbbell with the other, lean away from the pole and then pull back up to work your biceps.
What may surprise men the most when they sample pole dancing is that theyre probably pretty good at it.
A lot of women are jealous of men because they start out with more strength and can do more things, says Steve Shergold, whose Charlottesville, Va., dance studio launched one of the countrys first pole dance programs in 2003.
Originally women-only, E-Fit Dance started mens classes two years ago and has developed a group of talented chaps. They like that its a totally different way to work out, he says.
A reason classes for men are difficult to come by is that men and women tend to approach pole dancing differently. Its power and tricks versus finesse and skill, Shergold says. The vibe changes with co-ed classes, too. Its not that men will leer at the women, Shergold says, but theyre less likely to cheer.
What really stands in the way of pole dancings going fully co-ed is that it has done so well without guys.
I honestly dont know how to teach men, says Lisa Peklo, owner of DivaFit, which has established four locations in northern Virginia in less than five years.
Same goes for Michaela Brown, whose Washington, D.C., studio The P Spot just turned four years old.
My clients are average women itching for a fitness outlet. I really wanted to home in on this demographic thats been overlooked, she says.
So it may be up to men to make sure theyre not overlooked. Though its difficult to believe anyone could ever miss Jungle Cat.