Does the guy in your life have a man cave? You know, that sacred spot hes carved out for himself in your home, the one outfitted with the ugly recliner he cant live without and the other dubious furnishings youve banned from the rest of the house?
He may ardently declare his love for this sanctuary of masculinity, but chances are, if you could help him make this space more attractive, comfortable and functional, hed be over the moon. So why not celebrate your guy by making his man cave one of the best rooms in the house?
Like most men I know, my husband, Dan, has a man cave. Its sort of like a clubhouse with a No Girls Allowed sign hung from the door. I call this small upstairs office Command Central because its filled with computers, stacks of papers and piles of books.
I am not allowed in the man cave, not even to clean it. In fact, the only family members welcomed there are the kittens, probably because theyre males. But whenever Dan is out of town, I break the rules and barge in with a broom and dust rag. Once, I found a dust bunny that was so huge, it could have served as a science-fair project for a high school student.
When Dan gets back in town and discovers that the trash can has been emptied, the furniture dusted and the floor swept, hes mad at me for an entire day. But its worth his ire, because without this intervention, our house would likely be condemned by the health department.
For too long, the men in our lives have been relegated to the least desirable spots in our home – a corner of the basement or even in the garage. Now its time to make their man caves every bit as appealing as the rest of your home. Here are some ideas to get you started.
If your guy loves pool, poker or any other sort of guy game, why not make his cave into a smart-looking game room? Im a lover of the English-mens-club look, with its dark woods, rich leather furniture, menswear-fabric details and masculine artwork. This is the perfect place to bring that look into your home.
Dan about flipped when he saw the pool table wed gotten in at Nell Hills Briarcliff. To make this gaming table a bit more sophisticated, we replaced the standard green-felt top with black felt. I cant believe what a difference that one change made in the overall appearance of the room. Weve also carried marvelous leather-topped poker tables that help elevate the game room from cheesy to sophisticated.
Hunt for attractive furnishings to hold game accessories. A replica of an antique pool-cue holder adds loads of Old World style while it corrals all those cues that would otherwise be lying on the floor or leaning against the walls.
How about making the man cave into a study where he can work from home? A friend recently transformed a little-used formal living room into a study for her husband. It turned out so wonderfully that I wanted to move in.
First, she outfitted the room with a marvelous desk and comfortable chair. Then she added much-needed weight to the space by filling one wall with cabinets that would keep his papers out of sight. She finished off by softening things up with winged-back chairs and curtain panels.
If your study has a fireplace, consider replacing the mantel with something decidedly masculine, like a cast stone surround. Then, style it with guy-friendly accents, like hunting trophies or antlers.
For most guys, paradise is a comfy sofa and a big-screen TV. If your man would flip over a TV room thats his alone, start by housing his flat screen and other high-tech gear in a beautiful bookcase thats also got plenty of room for storage and displays. This is a great place to tastefully showcase accents that celebrate the things he loves, like golf, hunting or sports memorabilia.
Pick out a sofa thats sizable enough to fit him comfortably. I love sofas that have high backs and arms because you can easily prop yourself up to watch TV or read a book. And there is no better place to nap than on a deep, soft sofa. Make it more manly by adding a few accent pillows in menswear fabrics like hounds-tooth check, paisley and tartan plaid.
If your guy wants a bar in his man cave where he and his friends can gather for a drink, make it as fetching as it is functional. How about getting a great-looking butlers cart, then filling it with bar supplies? Im partial to these attractive carts because you can wheel them wherever you want and they arent so large that they dominate the room, the way built-in bars do.
For seating, consider adding a high-top table and chairs. It will make the room feel more like a pub and it will take up less room that a traditional table and chairs.