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Digital detoxing
Here are some tips from experts on digital detoxing to help your family unplug:
•Don’t go cold turkey. Cold turkey almost always fails. Ease off the technology gradually. Limit yourself to checking email three times a day, instead of every 10 minutes. Check Facebook once in the morning and once in the evening, not every hour. Small steps equate to progress.
•Set new ground rules at the family dinner table. Turn off the TV. Silence all phones and cellphones. Shut off all laptops and devices. Focus only on one another and spending quality time.
•Consider digital detoxing from your smartphone with these free apps: Digital Detox for Android smartphones disables your phone for a period you specify. Sabbath Manifesto for Androids, iPhones, Blackberrys and other smartphones does the same (sabbathmanifesto.org/unplug).
•Lead by example. Don’t bark at your kids to shut off the TV while you can’t pull yourself away from updating your Facebook page.
•Get real. Go have coffee with a friend. Take a walk. Enjoy a picnic lunch. Write a letter to someone you haven’t spoken with in a while.
•As you grow more comfortable with being unplugged, designate larger time frames for going technology-free. Remember to notify friends that you’re unplugging.
•Make a regular habit of digital detoxing – daily, weekly and on family vacations. Your kids and spouse will thank you.

Unplug for health, some say

Many Americans first learned the term “digital detox” when musician John Mayer completed a one-week detox in 2010 and encouraged his fans to do the same.

Digital Detox Week, an annual event in April, is gaining in popularity. National Day of Unplugging is set for March 23 and 24 this year.

Excessive connectedness is straining our bodies and brains, says Kim John Payne, author of “Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids.”

“Neurologically, we can’t sustain being on high alert any more than one-third of our waking life,” Payne says. “What’s happening as a result of technology is our brains are saying, ‘You have to be switched on, in top gear, for 10, 11, 12 hours a day,’ and basically we become adrenaline and cortisol junkies. Our brains and our bodies are simply not set up to tolerate that.”

An AOL study in 2010 on email usage found that 47 percent of respondents believe they are hooked on email, 59 percent check email in the bathroom and 60 percent check email on vacation.

The latest research by the Kaiser Family Foundation shows that the average child in the United States between the ages of 8 and 18 now watches more than 7 1/2 hours of entertainment media per day.

“It’s shocking to a lot of people,” says Payne, “but when they stop and think about it, they say, ‘Well, yes, that makes sense.’ That is tremendously out of whack.”

Some companies, including Google, are insisting that their workers unplug for certain parts of the day, recognizing that to innovate, employees need time to unplug.

“Back in our early startup days, we found that great things happen more frequently within the right culture and environment,” Katelin Todhunter-Gerberg, a Google spokeswoman, said. “That’s why we offer Googlers a generous host of benefits today to help them unplug and unwind.”

Google employees are offered use of bikes and walking trails for informal meetings, onsite fitness classes and onsite massage therapists to ensure they are comfortable and refreshed.

The movement to unplug and detox from technology may be taking root.

“People are much more discerning and conscious about their use of technology now,” Payne says. “It’s like we got all caught up in technology, about how amazing it was, how wonderful it was, but now a lot of people want to control the technology rather than the technology controlling them.”