If you are spending Easter Sunday volunteering at the Rescue Missions free holiday dinner, chances are you are not alone.
You probably are surrounded by friends.
Take Troy Bowling, 51, of Fort Wayne who was getting ready to serve free dinners of ham, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, green beans and pie to those in a line that stretched out the door by a little before noon.
I came with my girlfriend. Shes the one who got me here, says Bowling, a union operating engineer, standing alongside Julie Bennett, 47, of Liberty Mills.
This was something I always wanted to do, you know, kind of a bucket list thing, she says. I started at Christmas, and now its Easter. My girlfriends, she is really active into this. Shes the one who got me involved.
Bennetts friend, Renea Peacock, 46, of Fort Wayne, an insurance agent, says shes been helping out with Rescue Mission meals for seven years as a way of remembering her late mother.
I always try to get my friends to come, she says, standing by another friend and fellow volunteer, Terry Byer, 53, of Fort Wayne.
Byer used to be a resident at the mission, after a messy divorce and a physical disability all hit at about the same time, he says.
It was Easter, and she (Peacock) came in as a volunteer, and I met her. We started talking, and we ended up as good friends, the now-retired construction laborer says. Now its three Easters later.
Now he comes to volunteer and help me in any way he can, Peacock says.
Then there is David L. Jones of Fort Wayne, who would be with two of his friends, Steven Druart and Druarts wife Joy of Fort Wayne – if only Steven were not laid up after having hip surgery.
He came with me last Thanksgiving and he got hooked, he says.
At 68, Jones shyly acknowledges that he might be the longest-tenured volunteer in attendance.
He says he has been volunteering on holidays for 28 years, after deciding one Thanksgiving he did not want to eat a big meal and lay around all day like a beached whale.
The semiretired owner of the Shaver & Pen Center in Fort Wayne, Jones says most volunteers come to the mission by word of mouth from friends – and then make a lot of new ones.
Many of the holiday dinner clients are people who may have once needed services provided by the mission but now return on holidays as a sort of reunion.
Through the years, I met some nice people, and Ive become friends with them. I know some will be here today, he says.
Wearing a bright orange jean jacket as she greets attendees by the door, Peacock sees people she has met over the years about once every five minutes.
After leaning over to give one a hug, she says volunteering can be habit forming.
I think once you do this, its going to become something you always want to do, she says, adding that she also volunteers on Christmas and Thanksgiving and during the week the rest of the year.
This is my family, Peacock says. This is my adopted family.