The eyes will give you away, most every time.
Sure, we all need to be masked up for holiday shopping this year, but customer service is still important. And so are facial expressions.
On a recent visit to a foodservice business, I was overwhelmed by the vast menu options - even though I had recently looked at them online in advance to get some idea of what I'd like.
I deliberately stood probably 20 feet back from the counter where you would place an order - signaling my indecisiveness. When an employee asked if she could help, as in take my order, I let her know I was still trying to decide and I would know it when I spotted it. She seemed frustrated and I caught her turning her head slightly and giving a grimacing look to another employee further back behind the counter.
It was the middle of the afternoon.
The store was empty - except for me and the employees.
Not one to take poor or disrespectful customer service lightly, I asked the one employee if I was keeping her from anything and let her know that I noticed her expression.
I ordered. She appropriately shifted gears to a more appropriate presence.
Despite this pandemic forcing us to wear face coverings, it's hard to hide moods.
Retail workers and all others who interact with customers - regardless of the type of business - should keep that in mind. And it wouldn't hurt us as shoppers to do the same.
Even if you're having a bad day, customers should never suspect it based on how you greet or communicate with them. That includes the non verbal.
In this pandemic, we could all use a little more holiday cheer when we're out and about.
One of my favorite Facebook personalities is Tabitha Brown, an actress and vegan food influencer. Brown often closes her videos by reminding people to have a good day. But if you cant, she says, "don't you dare go messing up nobody else's."